So, when a bridesmaid decided to consult the moral compass of the internet otherwise known as Reddit's "Am I the As*hole" about whether or not she was wrong help the bride stage an elaborate groom ditch, people were quick to help deem a verdict.
So my friend and her fiancé had a huge fight regarding the guest list. I’m a bridesmaid, not the maid of honor. Fiancé whined and pushed my friend to make his mommy the MOH because she felt “excluded” from the wedding planning.
That fight lasted about 2 weeks, with him telling her she can either do it his way or the wedding is called off.
Guest List issue: MOH took full control of the wedding planning and wants to invite fiancé’s ex-girlfriend to the wedding. She wants her to sit at the family table. Fiancé and ex were high school sweethearts who broke up because of long-distance.