Jealousy is an emotion we all inevitably feel, and we can't blame ourselves for that. We can, however, take responsibility for how we deal with our feelings of jealousy. Openly expressing feelings of jealousy in order to have an open, non-hostile discussion about them is great, but using that jealousy as a reason to try to control people is not okay. This is important to remember when you are in a romantic partnership, as jealousy is likely to come up at some point, and how you deal with it can make or break your longevity. Wow, am I a love doctor?!