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<h2>Even if you&#39;re a man who fully trusts their partner, sometimes a DNA test is the only way to confirm a baby is yours...</h2><p>If a pregnant woman is having multiple relationships, the best move would probably be to be honest with all of the potential fathers about the situation. Especially when there are traits that would be a dead giveaway such as fathers of a different race, you&#39;re playing with fire if you don&#39;t confess to an affair. In the words of Kanye West, &quot;Eighteen years, eighteen years, And on the 18th birthday, he found out it wasn&#39;t his?&quot; Probably the only wise thing he ever said...</p><p>Sometimes, though, mothers just want to take the risk. If you can imagine how awkward it must be to be a father watching what you think is your new baby being born only to find out your partner has been having an affair and that baby is 100% not yours, the doctors and nurses are also there to experience the discomfort. And they never forget. </p><div className="ad-splitter"></div><p>When a recent <a href="https://www.reddit.com/r/AskReddit/comments/chi01o/doctors_and_nurses_of_reddit_who_have_delivered/?sort=top">Reddit </a>user asked, &quot;Doctors and nurses of Reddit who have delivered babies to mothers who clearly cheated on their husbands, what was that like?&quot; the medical world was ready to share their cringe-worthy tales of paternal woes.</p><h2>1. Oh. My. God. &quot;321zzz.&quot; </h2><blockquote> <p>Anesthesiologist here. C-sections are typically done under spinal anesthesia, and we&#39;re the ones at the head of the table keeping the mother calm and talking her through the procedure while the surgeons operate.</p> <p>I&#39;ve seen it more than once, but I remember one in particular when the parents were both very Caucasian, and the baby was very much not -- the actual father obviously had to be very dark-skinned. At delivery, when the not-Father saw the baby he just looked down at his wife (who was starting to cry) and calmly said, &quot;You fucking whore&quot; and walked out.</p> <p>She started screaming for him to come back, but there wasn&#39;t much she could do since she was, you know, still being operated on. She lost it to the point I eventually had to sedate her just a bit because she was in danger of injuring herself.</p> <p>As far as I know her husband never came back to the hospital, I don&#39;t know what happened after that.</p> </blockquote><div className="ad-splitter"></div><h2>2. Wow, &quot;Bewardthekaiju.&quot; </h2><blockquote> <p>New born had<b> </b>chlamydia, got it from the mom, obviously. So the mom admits she was cheating on the dad, because there&rsquo;s no other way to explain that one. Except- the dad was cheating too, with the other guy&rsquo;s girlfriend, and all 4 of them had chlamydia, with no idea who had it first. They also had no idea who the actual dad was. That was a rodeo. </p> </blockquote><h2>3. Damn, &quot;TOMORROWS-FORECAST.&quot; </h2><blockquote> <p>My brother had a surprise baby this way... he and a coworker had a one night stand while she was broken up with her ex. She gets back with her ex.. ends up pregnant flash forward to the delivery day... the day my brother sends me a picture of a random baby out of the blue and says &quot;I think I am a dad&quot;.</p> <p>She is white, her boyfriend is black my brother is white. Baby came out looking very very white.</p> <p>I don&#39;t know how it went down in the hospital room... but I know they separated very soon after. My brother went to visit her in the hospital and asked her if she would let him take a paternity test. She agreed and it came back positive a week later.</p> <p>And that&#39;s how I got my surprise nephew.</p> </blockquote><div className="ad-splitter"></div><h2> 4. That guy has an expensive future ahead of him, &quot;LaBestiadeGavaudan.&quot; </h2><blockquote> <p>Had two women give birth a few days apart on my floor. Turns out they actually had the same baby daddy. The father of the two newborns got both patients pregnant around the same time. It was an interesting day for the social worker!</p> </blockquote><h2>5. The drama! &quot;Kristenmcckenzie11.&quot; </h2><blockquote> <p>Super awkward for everyone involved. The husband was only in the room for a bit then left and didn&rsquo;t see him again. The fob (father of baby) showed up after the baby was born.</p> <p>I&rsquo;ve also had where they didn&rsquo;t know whose baby it was so both guys were present to see whose they thought it was.</p> <p> </p> </blockquote><h2>6. Yikes, &quot;LemonLimpet.&quot; </h2><blockquote> <p>I&#39;m a midwife. The only one I&#39;ve seen was when a baby had to be taken to the nursery for treatment for ABO incompatibility. We test the blood groups of all babies born to O+ mothers because they&#39;re at risk for it. So the mother was O+, and the baby was something else - would&#39;ve been from the father. The father was insisting it couldn&#39;t be correct because it didn&#39;t match his blood group. We had to tell him to be quiet, now was not the time/place. Don&#39;t what ended up happening. However, they were from an ethnic background that may value certain blood types over others so we did wonder if he actually knew his type or his parents had just told him it was the good one.</p> </blockquote><div className="ad-splitter"></div><h2>7. Aw, man. &quot;TorrenceMightingale.&quot; </h2><blockquote> <p>Had a patient who came in to ER for UTI with her boyfriend of 4 months (his words). She was 19. Acting extremely dramatic for just having UTI. We tell her we need urine. She urges us to cath her which is really unusual but she says she can&rsquo;t pee so me and other nurse assume the position to put in a catheter with her lying on the gurney. At this point nurse screams, &ldquo;call L&amp;D!! She&rsquo;s crowning!!&rdquo;</p> <p>L&amp;D nurse gets in just in time to grab the child as it shoots out into her hands and is a living breathing baby.</p> <p>The girl swears she had no idea she was pregnant. They wheel her off to postpartum and the guy is just kind of left standing there, dumbstruck.</p> <p>&ldquo;We only been dating 4 months. I had no idea she was pregnant. She never mentioned it at all.&rdquo; As he just buried his head in his knees while he was sitting on the floor against the hallway wall.</p> <p>I felt so bad for the guy.</p> </blockquote><div className="ad-splitter"></div><h2>8. This is a soap opera, &quot;DantheMormonian.&quot; </h2><blockquote> <p>Ok story from a friend of my brothers. She worked as a nurse and a woman and her husband came in. They were both white, and she delivered a child that was black. The husband immediately starts saying wtf, while she is going on and on about dormant traits and everything.</p> <p>He orders a DNA test. While this is going on her mother and Stepdad show up. The stepdad is black, after the testing is done, the DNA test ends up showing that the baby is the Stepdad&#39;s. Her husband instantly dropped her and cut ties.</p> </blockquote><h2>9. Sometimes vasectomies aren&#39;t effective? &quot;onethirtyseven_&quot;</h2><blockquote> <p>I had a female patient come in with abdominal pain. Pregnancy test was positive. She was with her husband who, evidently, had a vasectomy about a year prior.</p> <p>I slowly backed out of the room after that one..</p> </blockquote><h2>10. A twist! &quot;full_of_frustration.&quot; </h2><blockquote> <p>My aunt, who is white, is married to a black man. When their son was born, he was white with blonde hair. Dad was screaming and throwing a fit in the hospital. Doctor came in and turns out, their son is albino. </p> </blockquote><div className="ad-splitter"></div><h2>11. Yeesh, &quot;Budgiejen.&quot; </h2><blockquote> <p>I was a phlebotomist. Went to draw a baby and a nurse holds up a little baby and says, &ldquo;Does he look black?&rdquo;</p> <p>I laughed and said, &ldquo;No, look at that red hair!&rdquo;</p> <p>Apparently mom was white, husband was black. But he&rsquo;d been in jail and she had been accused of cheating with a white guy. Guess they found the proof. She confessed right in the delivery room that it wasn&rsquo;t his.</p> <p> </p> </blockquote><h2>12. A+, &quot;Trixie1229.&quot; </h2><blockquote> <p>I have a white friend who is a Superman of a dad. When his third child was born, she was obviously of mixed race. His white wife had an affair with a black man. The wife also had substance abuse issues before this pregnancy and was no longer dependable or stable as a mother. So my friend immediately divorced her and took custody of the kids. ALL of them. He&#39;s been raising his two bio kids and the third child who isn&#39;t technically his for the past decade. She&#39;s his princess and he loves her exactly like the other two.</p> <p>Edited to answer a couple of questions: he is a straight man who has not remarried. He&#39;s done this all on his own, dated here and there, but nothing serious yet. He&#39;s too busy with three kids, full time career, and a small business to run.</p> <p>Also, bio dad to the third child waived his rights immediately when he found out about her birth. He was mom&#39;s dealer and their fling was a one time thing that resulted in pregnancy. He had zero interest in fatherhood.</p> </blockquote><div className="ad-splitter"></div><h2>13. She gave herself away! &quot;DarrenEdwards.&quot; </h2><blockquote> <p>The mother takes the doctor aside and makes him promise to let her know the color of the baby the instant he knows. The baby is born and the doctor announces to mom,&quot;Congratulations on your beautiful, healthy WHITE baby!&quot; The father just walked right out the room and they never found anything more out about it. </p> </blockquote><div className="ad-splitter"></div>

Doctors and nurses share about times a baby was born to a mom who was clearly having an affair.

Even if you&#39;re a man who fully trusts their partner, sometimes a DNA test is the only way to confirm a baby is yours...If a pregnant woman is having multiple relationships, the best move would probably be to be honest with all of the potential fathers about the situation. Especially when there are traits that would be a dead giveaway such as fathers of a different race, you&#39;re playing with fire if you don&#39;t confess to an affair. In the words of Kanye West, &quot;Eighteen years, eighteen years, And on the 18th birthday, he found out it wasn&#39;t his?&quot; Probably the only wise thing he ever said...Sometimes, though, mothers just want to take the risk. If you can imagine how awkward it must be to be a father watching what you think is your new baby being born only to find out your partner has been having an affair and that baby is 100% not yours, the doctors and nurses are also there to experience the discomfort. And they never forget. When a recent Reddit user asked, &quot;Doctors and nurses of Reddit who have delivered babies to mothers who clearly cheated on their husbands, what was that like?&quot; the medical world was ready to share their cringe-worthy tales of paternal woes.1. Oh. My. God. &quot;321zzz.&quot;  Anesthesiologist here. C-sections are typically done under spinal anesthesia, and we&#39;re the ones at the head of the table keeping the mother calm and talking her through the procedure while the surgeons operate. I&#39;ve seen it more than once, but I remember one in particular when the parents were both very Caucasian, and the baby was very much not -- the actual father obviously had to be very dark-skinned. At delivery, when the not-Father saw the baby he just looked down at his wife (who was starting to cry) and calmly said, &quot;You fucking whore&quot; and walked out. She started screaming for him to come back, but there wasn&#39;t much she could do since she was, you know, still being operated on. She lost it to the point I eventually had to sedate her just a bit because she was in danger of injuring herself. As far as I know her husband never came back to the hospital, I don&#39;t know what happened after that. 2. Wow, &quot;Bewardthekaiju.&quot;  New born had chlamydia, got it from the mom, obviously. So the mom admits she was cheating on the dad, because there&rsquo;s no other way to explain that one. Except- the dad was cheating too, with the other guy&rsquo;s girlfriend, and all 4 of them had chlamydia, with no idea who had it first. They also had no idea who the actual dad was. That was a rodeo.  3. Damn, &quot;TOMORROWS-FORECAST.&quot;  My brother had a surprise baby this way... he and a coworker had a one night stand while she was broken up with her ex. She gets back with her ex.. ends up pregnant flash forward to the delivery day... the day my brother sends me a picture of a random baby out of the blue and says &quot;I think I am a dad&quot;. She is white, her boyfriend is black my brother is white. Baby came out looking very very white. I don&#39;t know how it went down in the hospital room... but I know they separated very soon after. My brother went to visit her in the hospital and asked her if she would let him take a paternity test. She agreed and it came back positive a week later. And that&#39;s how I got my surprise nephew.  4. That guy has an expensive future ahead of him, &quot;LaBestiadeGavaudan.&quot;  Had two women give birth a few days apart on my floor. Turns out they actually had the same baby daddy. The father of the two newborns got both patients pregnant around the same time. It was an interesting day for the social worker! 5. The drama! &quot;Kristenmcckenzie11.&quot;  Super awkward for everyone involved. The husband was only in the room for a bit then left and didn&rsquo;t see him again. The fob (father of baby) showed up after the baby was born. I&rsquo;ve also had where they didn&rsquo;t know whose baby it was so both guys were present to see whose they thought it was.   6. Yikes, &quot;LemonLimpet.&quot;  I&#39;m a midwife. The only one I&#39;ve seen was when a baby had to be taken to the nursery for treatment for ABO incompatibility. We test the blood groups of all babies born to O+ mothers because they&#39;re at risk for it. So the mother was O+, and the baby was something else - would&#39;ve been from the father. The father was insisting it couldn&#39;t be correct because it didn&#39;t match his blood group. We had to tell him to be quiet, now was not the time/place. Don&#39;t what ended up happening. However, they were from an ethnic background that may value certain blood types over others so we did wonder if he actually knew his type or his parents had just told him it was the good one. 7. Aw, man. &quot;TorrenceMightingale.&quot;  Had a patient who came in to ER for UTI with her boyfriend of 4 months (his words). She was 19. Acting extremely dramatic for just having UTI. We tell her we need urine. She urges us to cath her which is really unusual but she says she can&rsquo;t pee so me and other nurse assume the position to put in a catheter with her lying on the gurney. At this point nurse screams, &ldquo;call L&amp;D!! She&rsquo;s crowning!!&rdquo; L&amp;D nurse gets in just in time to grab the child as it shoots out into her hands and is a living breathing baby. The girl swears she had no idea she was pregnant. They wheel her off to postpartum and the guy is just kind of left standing there, dumbstruck. &ldquo;We only been dating 4 months. I had no idea she was pregnant. She never mentioned it at all.&rdquo; As he just buried his head in his knees while he was sitting on the floor against the hallway wall. I felt so bad for the guy. 8. This is a soap opera, &quot;DantheMormonian.&quot;  Ok story from a friend of my brothers. She worked as a nurse and a woman and her husband came in. They were both white, and she delivered a child that was black. The husband immediately starts saying wtf, while she is going on and on about dormant traits and everything. He orders a DNA test. While this is going on her mother and Stepdad show up. The stepdad is black, after the testing is done, the DNA test ends up showing that the baby is the Stepdad&#39;s. Her husband instantly dropped her and cut ties. 9. Sometimes vasectomies aren&#39;t effective? &quot;onethirtyseven_&quot; I had a female patient come in with abdominal pain. Pregnancy test was positive. She was with her husband who, evidently, had a vasectomy about a year prior. I slowly backed out of the room after that one.. 10. A twist! &quot;full_of_frustration.&quot;  My aunt, who is white, is married to a black man. When their son was born, he was white with blonde hair. Dad was screaming and throwing a fit in the hospital. Doctor came in and turns out, their son is albino.  11. Yeesh, &quot;Budgiejen.&quot;  I was a phlebotomist. Went to draw a baby and a nurse holds up a little baby and says, &ldquo;Does he look black?&rdquo; I laughed and said, &ldquo;No, look at that red hair!&rdquo; Apparently mom was white, husband was black. But he&rsquo;d been in jail and she had been accused of cheating with a white guy. Guess they found the proof. She confessed right in the delivery room that it wasn&rsquo;t his.   12. A+, &quot;Trixie1229.&quot;  I have a white friend who is a Superman of a dad. When his third child was born, she was obviously of mixed race. His white wife had an affair with a black man. The wife also had substance abuse issues before this pregnancy and was no longer dependable or stable as a mother. So my friend immediately divorced her and took custody of the kids. ALL of them. He&#39;s been raising his two bio kids and the third child who isn&#39;t technically his for the past decade. She&#39;s his princess and he loves her exactly like the other two. Edited to answer a couple of questions: he is a straight man who has not remarried. He&#39;s done this all on his own, dated here and there, but nothing serious yet. He&#39;s too busy with three kids, full time career, and a small business to run. Also, bio dad to the third child waived his rights immediately when he found out about her birth. He was mom&#39;s dealer and their fling was a one time thing that resulted in pregnancy. He had zero interest in fatherhood. 13. She gave herself away! &quot;DarrenEdwards.&quot;  The mother takes the doctor aside and makes him promise to let her know the color of the baby the instant he knows. The baby is born and the doctor announces to mom,&quot;Congratulations on your beautiful, healthy WHITE baby!&quot; The father just walked right out the room and they never found anything more out about it.  

Even if you&#39;re a man who fully trusts their partner, sometimes a DNA test is the only way to confirm a baby is yours...  If a pregnant woman is having multiple relationships, the best move would probably be to be honest with all of the...