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<h2>Planning a wedding can be a fun and exciting time for soon-to-be newlyweds, but the unsolicited advice from family and friends isn&#39;t always appreciated...</h2><p>People love to chime in with their suggestions for venues, attire, bachelor and bachelorette parties, bridal showers, flowers, or any other wedding-related decision. Everyone has a different perspective on what brides or grooms should and shouldn&#39;t do, based most of the time on their own experience with getting married or their own desires for their future wedding. While advice is sometimes definitely appreciated, it&#39;s better to only offer your wedding tips if the couple asks you for advice. The stress and cost of planning a major life event is enough without having to rethink all of your choices because your aunt thinks carrot cake is &quot;tacky.&quot;</p><p>As long as the couple getting married is happy and excited to celebrate their relationship with their guests, it doesn&#39;t matter if you think strapless is a bad style choice for the dance floor. Keep your ideas to yourself and enjoy the open bar.</p><div className="ad-splitter"></div><p>So, when a frustrated groom decided to consult the internet&#39;s moral compass of Reddit&#39;s &quot;Am I the as*hole&quot; about his an argument his fianc&egrave;e got into with his sister about her chosen wedding dress, people were eager to offer advice.</p><h2><a href="https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/kspqdi/aita_for_uninviting_my_sister_to_my_wedding_for/">AITA </a>(Am I the as*hole): For uninviting my sister to my wedding for what she told my fianc&egrave;e?</h2><blockquote> <p>My M27 fianc&egrave;e F25 has an obvious permanent burnscar from an accident that caused her mother (her only parent) to pass away from injury. My fianc&egrave;e had a long recovery it&#39;s been 7 years. The scar is on her collarbone. it goes down her chest but isn&#39;t showing unless she&#39;s wearing scoop/square tops. She often wears hoodies/jackets to cover up. She puts this cream I don&#39;t know what ladies call it but it&#39;s supposed to tone skin color or something? I&#39;m not sure but my fianc&egrave;e calls it foundation that is one degree brighter than her skin color. I absolutely adore her she&#39;s pretty, smart, ambitious and the list goes on. What happened was unfortunate and I&#39;m glad she&#39;s at peace with herself and more confident.</p> </blockquote><div className="ad-splitter"></div><p> </p><blockquote> <p>My family love her. How can they not. She&#39;s a member of the family. My mom makes sure she takes part in every family function and things like shopping and decorating other things. However. My sister made comments about my fianc&egrave;e&#39;s scar several times. I&#39;ve called her out on her behavior several times to get her to stop because she was hurting me before my fianc&egrave;e with her backhanded and insensitive comments. I told my fianc&egrave;e she had everyright to cut my sister out and not deal with her bullshit but she has been forgiving and respectful of my entire family.</p> </blockquote><p> </p><blockquote> <p>Our wedding is in February. My fianc&egrave;e went shopping for the wedding dress. This is where the issue started:</p> <p>My fianc&egrave;e showed the wedding dress to my sister. I didn&#39;t see it but I was told it was a spaghetti strap dress. My fianc&egrave;e likes this stuff. Anyways my sister saw it and went nuts she started criticizing her choice and said that she should&#39;ve gotten a high neck or a jewel wedding dress to cover up the scar. She argued with my fianc&egrave;e about it. I went to my family&#39;s house and I confronted her. I yelled at her after she told me my fiancee needed to return the dress and get a &quot;proper&quot; one so that guests won&#39;t focus on her burnscar and use it as the topic of conversation and gossip. I told her that she&#39;s not invited to our wedding. She isn&#39;t welcome to my wedding with this entitled attitude of hers and her insensitivity and disrespect. We argued for half an hour then I left.</p> </blockquote><div className="ad-splitter"></div><p> </p><blockquote> <p>In exactly an hour. My mom and dad called and berated me saying my sister was crying after I uninvited her and that I had no right to univinte her. She&#39;s my sister and was just trying to help out and give an advice and avoid any &quot;unnecessary&quot; drama at the wedding. My mom said my fianc&egrave;e can keep the dress but suggested to wear a bridal shawl as a neutral solution. I stopped responding to my mom&#39;s calls and texts after that. Family members were upset my sister was uninvited and wanted me to invite her again because this will make family look bad in front of outsiders and guests.</p> </blockquote><h2>Here&#39;s what the jury of internet strangers had to say:</h2><blockquote> <p>NTA (Not the as*hole). Uninvite anyone who insults your fiancee, imo - brokeanail</p> </blockquote><blockquote> <p>NTA. Your Mom is ridiculous to suggest your fianc&eacute;e needs to compromise with anyone on her wedding dress. - Obiterdicta</p> </blockquote><div className="ad-splitter"></div><blockquote> <p>NTA. Your sister was being malicious and hateful, not &ldquo;helpful&rdquo;. Your mother further compounded the problem by suggesting your fianc&eacute; is &ldquo;allowed&rdquo; to keep the dress she selected if she covers it up with a shawl? Your fianc&eacute;&rsquo;s bodily autonomy is not a debate or democracy. Your family was not asked for and does not get a vote. Most importantly, nobody should be present at a wedding when they don&rsquo;t actually accept the person being married for who they are - scar or no scar. - brandyto</p> </blockquote><blockquote> <p>NTA: Your sister mad that she ain&#39;t got one of nature&#39;s most bada*s tattoos. I am glad your fiance is willing to be open about her scars and everything they mean to us survivors. Source: burn survivor who would slap someone for telling me to cover my scars. - Killer-Orange</p> </blockquote><div className="ad-splitter"></div><blockquote> <p>NTA. Well done standing up for your wife-to-be. - TransoTheWonderKitty</p> </blockquote><h2>So, there you have it!</h2><p>Everyone agreed that this groom is not at all wrong to uninvite his sister after she insulted his soon-to-be wife&#39;s appearance that was caused by a traumatic event fully out of her control. She should wear whatever dress makes her feel beautiful and happy on her wedding day and if her scars make guests uncomfortable, then they&#39;re probably not people who should be celebrating with her anyway. Good luck, everyone!</p><div className="ad-splitter"></div>

Groom asks if he’s wrong to uninvite sister from wedding for telling fiancée to cover up her scars.

Planning a wedding can be a fun and exciting time for soon-to-be newlyweds, but the unsolicited advice from family and friends isn&#39;t always appreciated...People love to chime in with their suggestions for venues, attire, bachelor and bachelorette parties, bridal showers, flowers, or any other wedding-related decision. Everyone has a different perspective on what brides or grooms should and shouldn&#39;t do, based most of the time on their own experience with getting married or their own desires for their future wedding. While advice is sometimes definitely appreciated, it&#39;s better to only offer your wedding tips if the couple asks you for advice. The stress and cost of planning a major life event is enough without having to rethink all of your choices because your aunt thinks carrot cake is &quot;tacky.&quot;As long as the couple getting married is happy and excited to celebrate their relationship with their guests, it doesn&#39;t matter if you think strapless is a bad style choice for the dance floor. Keep your ideas to yourself and enjoy the open bar.So, when a frustrated groom decided to consult the internet&#39;s moral compass of Reddit&#39;s &quot;Am I the as*hole&quot; about his an argument his fianc&egrave;e got into with his sister about her chosen wedding dress, people were eager to offer advice.AITA (Am I the as*hole): For uninviting my sister to my wedding for what she told my fianc&egrave;e? My M27 fianc&egrave;e F25 has an obvious permanent burnscar from an accident that caused her mother (her only parent) to pass away from injury. My fianc&egrave;e had a long recovery it&#39;s been 7 years. The scar is on her collarbone. it goes down her chest but isn&#39;t showing unless she&#39;s wearing scoop/square tops. She often wears hoodies/jackets to cover up. She puts this cream I don&#39;t know what ladies call it but it&#39;s supposed to tone skin color or something? I&#39;m not sure but my fianc&egrave;e calls it foundation that is one degree brighter than her skin color. I absolutely adore her she&#39;s pretty, smart, ambitious and the list goes on. What happened was unfortunate and I&#39;m glad she&#39;s at peace with herself and more confident.   My family love her. How can they not. She&#39;s a member of the family. My mom makes sure she takes part in every family function and things like shopping and decorating other things. However. My sister made comments about my fianc&egrave;e&#39;s scar several times. I&#39;ve called her out on her behavior several times to get her to stop because she was hurting me before my fianc&egrave;e with her backhanded and insensitive comments. I told my fianc&egrave;e she had everyright to cut my sister out and not deal with her bullshit but she has been forgiving and respectful of my entire family.   Our wedding is in February. My fianc&egrave;e went shopping for the wedding dress. This is where the issue started: My fianc&egrave;e showed the wedding dress to my sister. I didn&#39;t see it but I was told it was a spaghetti strap dress. My fianc&egrave;e likes this stuff. Anyways my sister saw it and went nuts she started criticizing her choice and said that she should&#39;ve gotten a high neck or a jewel wedding dress to cover up the scar. She argued with my fianc&egrave;e about it. I went to my family&#39;s house and I confronted her. I yelled at her after she told me my fiancee needed to return the dress and get a &quot;proper&quot; one so that guests won&#39;t focus on her burnscar and use it as the topic of conversation and gossip. I told her that she&#39;s not invited to our wedding. She isn&#39;t welcome to my wedding with this entitled attitude of hers and her insensitivity and disrespect. We argued for half an hour then I left.   In exactly an hour. My mom and dad called and berated me saying my sister was crying after I uninvited her and that I had no right to univinte her. She&#39;s my sister and was just trying to help out and give an advice and avoid any &quot;unnecessary&quot; drama at the wedding. My mom said my fianc&egrave;e can keep the dress but suggested to wear a bridal shawl as a neutral solution. I stopped responding to my mom&#39;s calls and texts after that. Family members were upset my sister was uninvited and wanted me to invite her again because this will make family look bad in front of outsiders and guests. Here&#39;s what the jury of internet strangers had to say: NTA (Not the as*hole). Uninvite anyone who insults your fiancee, imo - brokeanail  NTA. Your Mom is ridiculous to suggest your fianc&eacute;e needs to compromise with anyone on her wedding dress. - Obiterdicta  NTA. Your sister was being malicious and hateful, not &ldquo;helpful&rdquo;. Your mother further compounded the problem by suggesting your fianc&eacute; is &ldquo;allowed&rdquo; to keep the dress she selected if she covers it up with a shawl? Your fianc&eacute;&rsquo;s bodily autonomy is not a debate or democracy. Your family was not asked for and does not get a vote. Most importantly, nobody should be present at a wedding when they don&rsquo;t actually accept the person being married for who they are - scar or no scar. - brandyto  NTA: Your sister mad that she ain&#39;t got one of nature&#39;s most bada*s tattoos. I am glad your fiance is willing to be open about her scars and everything they mean to us survivors. Source: burn survivor who would slap someone for telling me to cover my scars. - Killer-Orange  NTA. Well done standing up for your wife-to-be. - TransoTheWonderKitty So, there you have it!Everyone agreed that this groom is not at all wrong to uninvite his sister after she insulted his soon-to-be wife&#39;s appearance that was caused by a traumatic event fully out of her control. She should wear whatever dress makes her feel beautiful and happy on her wedding day and if her scars make guests uncomfortable, then they&#39;re probably not people who should be celebrating with her anyway. Good luck, everyone!

Planning a wedding can be a fun and exciting time for soon-to-be newlyweds, but the unsolicited advice from family and friends isn&#39;t always appreciated...  People love to chime in with their suggestions for venues, attire, bachelor and...