A lot of the dramatic wedding stories floating around the internet center around bridezillas, but there are just as many awful grooms out there. While the cultural narrative focuses on a women's obsession with their wedding day, there are plenty of men who also want to dictate the details of every wedding photo.
"AITA for getting a tattoo before my brother's wedding?'
OP is in her 30s and has accrued a collection of tattoos since her 20s, her family has always been critical but that has never been a real issue up until now.
"My brother is getting married in a few months. I have been asked to be in the wedding party. I'm in my early 30s and have been getting tattooed once every year or two since I was 20, so by now I have a number of tattoos, they're all well-done and no offensive/shocking designs. Mostly they are nature and abstract art. No one in my family really likes my tattoos, but it's not their body or their money so their comments never bothered me much."