The flowers, the formal attire, color schemes, guest list, seating charts, DJ or band, all diet accommodating menu, venue, open bar, bridal party, bachelor and bachelorette parties, bridal showers--planning a wedding (depending on how elaborate you want to go) can be an incredibly stressful experience. What usually starts as the desire to share a fun day of celebrating your relationship with everyone you love can rapidly turn into a detail-driven flower-frenzied fit of chaos if you don't constantly keep your perspective in check. If you've ever been in a wedding, you might be familiar with the drama surrounding dress styles, hair and makeup, or a bride or groom's wish for everyone attending to conceal the physical traits that make them unique "for the photos."
So, when a pregnant maid-of-honor decided to consult the moral compass of the internet otherwise known as Reddit's "Am I the as*hole?" about an unbelievably selfish bride, people were quick to offer their words of wisdom.