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<h2>Ordering (and presumably eating) pizza is one of life&#39;s true joys. But it can go very weirdly wrong...</h2><p>When a couple ordered pizza from the girlfriend&#39;s regular place, things got messy enough to consult the highest moral authority: Reddit.</p><h2><a href="https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/tykl4n/aita_for_reporting_the_pizza_delivery_guy_for/">AITA</a> (Am I the As*hole) for reporting the pizza delivery guy for sliding a note under my girlfriend&#39;s door?</h2><blockquote> <p>I (M28) was spending the weekend with my girlfriend at her place. We decided to order some pizza and she ordered from her usual restaurant.</p> </blockquote><blockquote> <p>When the delivery guy arrived, I opened the door and he looked at me confused then proceeded to ask where (girlfriend&#39;s name) was. I said &quot;excuse me&quot; and asked why he was asking and he said nothing, it was just that he&#39;s used to delivering pizza to her and this is the first time he saw me, so he thought she moved.</p> </blockquote><blockquote> <p>I told him she was busy, then took the pizza and gave him money and while I was turning, I saw him still standing. I asked, &quot;how can I help?&quot; and he said &quot;don&#39;t mind me I&#39;m just standing here waiting.&quot;</p> </blockquote><div className="ad-splitter"></div><h2>Hmmm...why?</h2><blockquote> <p>I told him he shouldn&#39;t keep standing outside like that and he rudely said it wasn&#39;t my property. I got angry but didn&#39;t want to escalate so I said this wasn&#39;t public property and he should LEAVE. I then went inside and shut the door.</p> </blockquote><blockquote> <p>10 minutes later, I caught a note getting slid under the door. I went to look and opened the door and saw the pizza guy going downstairs. I stopped him immediately and then read what the note said. He kept calling my girlfriend with her name and said that he was worried about her and how sad he was that he didn&#39;t see her this time.</p> </blockquote><blockquote> <p>I asked if he left this note just to confirm then told him I&#39;d report him to his boss for this behavior. He said this wasn&#39;t for me and I&#39;m not the owner of this place so it was non of my business. We argued loud enough for my girlfriend to come out.</p> </blockquote><div className="ad-splitter"></div><blockquote> <p>I told her what he did and she told me to leave it alone and go back inside. I said alright then, but soon as I walked in, I called his workplace and wanted to speak to the manager. I told him what that guy did and he promised to take care of it and said that he won&#39;t working for them anymore.</p> </blockquote><blockquote> <p>Don&#39;t know if he was just telling me what I wanted to hear but when I told my girlfriend, she got mad saying I shouldn&#39;t have done this and escalated by getting the dude fired.</p> </blockquote><blockquote> <p>I asked if she was okay with what he did and she said no but now she can no longer order from this restaurent as they block any customer that complains. I said maybe good riddance then?</p> </blockquote><blockquote> <p>She said I overreacted and had no right to do this when it&#39;s not even my apartment. I didn&#39;t know what to say but she completely shut down and refused to talk to me except to say I&#39;m being too insecure and petty.</p> </blockquote><div className="ad-splitter"></div><h2>Later, he added:</h2><blockquote> <p><strong>Edit: </strong>Something else is going on? I don&#39;t know but from his attitude it did seem like he knew her well enough to act this comfortably. I tried to talk to him like asking if I could help but he shut me down completely acting like I&#39;m not even there. I wanted to get more clarification from my girlfriend but she refused and I didn&#39;t want to pressure her.</p> </blockquote><blockquote> <p>Also, I doubt that the guy lost his job and also doubt my girlfriend was &quot;blocked&quot; as a customer. As for the note, it was him addressing her directly saying he&#39;s worried and that he was sad he didn&#39;t get to see her.</p> </blockquote><h2>What does a pizza slice and love have in common? They&#39;re both triangles!</h2><p>Is there more going on here between the GF and the delivery guy or are they just friends? I know I order enough take-out to consider my delivery peeps my family. But is getting someone fired a good move or toxic jealousy?</p><div className="ad-splitter"></div><h2>Here&#39;s how the pie-loving masses weighed in:</h2><blockquote> <p>NTA, (not the a**hole) I am a pizza delivery driver / maker&hellip;. He was WAY out of bounds. And super creepy that he interacts with regulars that way, I am always nice and chit chat, but I never stay longer than a minute or so after the transaction, I&rsquo;m on the clock and have deliveries to make, I&rsquo;ll see you next delivery - DiggityGiggity8</p> </blockquote><p> </p><blockquote> <p>More information needed. Why was he so worried about her? Could he hear yelling and screaming as he approached the door? Were your knuckles bloody and your arms scratched? Why wasn&rsquo;t she answering the door herself? Was her face swollen and her neck bruised?</p> </blockquote><p> </p><blockquote> <p>I&rsquo;m asking because you really overreacted, even if he was being a little weird. Which makes you sound controlling and aggressive&hellip; which makes me wonder if the delivery guy was right to worry. - MadamePouleMontreal</p> </blockquote><div className="ad-splitter"></div><p> </p><blockquote> <p>ESH (everyone sucks here) - (except the GF) Both you and the pizza guy were wrong here. He was way out of line obviously, but he&#39;s right about one thing: that&#39;s not your house and you should have let your girlfriend handle it. She told you to leave it alone. - BeepBlipBlapBloop</p> </blockquote><p> </p><blockquote> <p>YTA (you&#39;re the a**hole), for one main reason. This guy is a creep for sure but he&rsquo;s being a creep to your gf-making her the victim of it. He knows where she lives and now you&rsquo;ve potentially lost him his job&mdash;likely pissing him off. You&rsquo;ve just escalated the situation significantly for her and she&rsquo;s the one who will have to deal with it if this creep comes back. - the_happy_atheist</p> </blockquote><div className="ad-splitter"></div><p> </p><blockquote> <p>NTA. I cackled when I read &ldquo;&hellip;he rudely said it wasnt my property.&rdquo; Bro what?? It&rsquo;s not the pizza guy&rsquo;s property either??? This guy has some sort of infatuation with your GF. - HelloHowAreYou1973</p> </blockquote><h2>And that&#39;s the way the pepperoni falls!</h2><p>Opinions were divided, but most agreed that the delivery guy was indeed being creepy. Moral of the story? Communicate with your partner!</p><div className="ad-splitter"></div>

Man asks if he's wrong for reporting pizza guy who left note for his girlfriend.

Ordering (and presumably eating) pizza is one of life&#39;s true joys. But it can go very weirdly wrong...When a couple ordered pizza from the girlfriend&#39;s regular place, things got messy enough to consult the highest moral authority: Reddit.AITA (Am I the As*hole) for reporting the pizza delivery guy for sliding a note under my girlfriend&#39;s door? I (M28) was spending the weekend with my girlfriend at her place. We decided to order some pizza and she ordered from her usual restaurant.  When the delivery guy arrived, I opened the door and he looked at me confused then proceeded to ask where (girlfriend&#39;s name) was. I said &quot;excuse me&quot; and asked why he was asking and he said nothing, it was just that he&#39;s used to delivering pizza to her and this is the first time he saw me, so he thought she moved.  I told him she was busy, then took the pizza and gave him money and while I was turning, I saw him still standing. I asked, &quot;how can I help?&quot; and he said &quot;don&#39;t mind me I&#39;m just standing here waiting.&quot; Hmmm...why? I told him he shouldn&#39;t keep standing outside like that and he rudely said it wasn&#39;t my property. I got angry but didn&#39;t want to escalate so I said this wasn&#39;t public property and he should LEAVE. I then went inside and shut the door.  10 minutes later, I caught a note getting slid under the door. I went to look and opened the door and saw the pizza guy going downstairs. I stopped him immediately and then read what the note said. He kept calling my girlfriend with her name and said that he was worried about her and how sad he was that he didn&#39;t see her this time.  I asked if he left this note just to confirm then told him I&#39;d report him to his boss for this behavior. He said this wasn&#39;t for me and I&#39;m not the owner of this place so it was non of my business. We argued loud enough for my girlfriend to come out.  I told her what he did and she told me to leave it alone and go back inside. I said alright then, but soon as I walked in, I called his workplace and wanted to speak to the manager. I told him what that guy did and he promised to take care of it and said that he won&#39;t working for them anymore.  Don&#39;t know if he was just telling me what I wanted to hear but when I told my girlfriend, she got mad saying I shouldn&#39;t have done this and escalated by getting the dude fired.  I asked if she was okay with what he did and she said no but now she can no longer order from this restaurent as they block any customer that complains. I said maybe good riddance then?  She said I overreacted and had no right to do this when it&#39;s not even my apartment. I didn&#39;t know what to say but she completely shut down and refused to talk to me except to say I&#39;m being too insecure and petty. Later, he added: Edit: Something else is going on? I don&#39;t know but from his attitude it did seem like he knew her well enough to act this comfortably. I tried to talk to him like asking if I could help but he shut me down completely acting like I&#39;m not even there. I wanted to get more clarification from my girlfriend but she refused and I didn&#39;t want to pressure her.  Also, I doubt that the guy lost his job and also doubt my girlfriend was &quot;blocked&quot; as a customer. As for the note, it was him addressing her directly saying he&#39;s worried and that he was sad he didn&#39;t get to see her. What does a pizza slice and love have in common? They&#39;re both triangles!Is there more going on here between the GF and the delivery guy or are they just friends? I know I order enough take-out to consider my delivery peeps my family. But is getting someone fired a good move or toxic jealousy?Here&#39;s how the pie-loving masses weighed in: NTA, (not the a**hole) I am a pizza delivery driver / maker&hellip;. He was WAY out of bounds. And super creepy that he interacts with regulars that way, I am always nice and chit chat, but I never stay longer than a minute or so after the transaction, I&rsquo;m on the clock and have deliveries to make, I&rsquo;ll see you next delivery - DiggityGiggity8   More information needed. Why was he so worried about her? Could he hear yelling and screaming as he approached the door? Were your knuckles bloody and your arms scratched? Why wasn&rsquo;t she answering the door herself? Was her face swollen and her neck bruised?   I&rsquo;m asking because you really overreacted, even if he was being a little weird. Which makes you sound controlling and aggressive&hellip; which makes me wonder if the delivery guy was right to worry. - MadamePouleMontreal   ESH (everyone sucks here) - (except the GF) Both you and the pizza guy were wrong here. He was way out of line obviously, but he&#39;s right about one thing: that&#39;s not your house and you should have let your girlfriend handle it. She told you to leave it alone. - BeepBlipBlapBloop   YTA (you&#39;re the a**hole), for one main reason. This guy is a creep for sure but he&rsquo;s being a creep to your gf-making her the victim of it. He knows where she lives and now you&rsquo;ve potentially lost him his job&mdash;likely pissing him off. You&rsquo;ve just escalated the situation significantly for her and she&rsquo;s the one who will have to deal with it if this creep comes back. - the_happy_atheist   NTA. I cackled when I read &ldquo;&hellip;he rudely said it wasnt my property.&rdquo; Bro what?? It&rsquo;s not the pizza guy&rsquo;s property either??? This guy has some sort of infatuation with your GF. - HelloHowAreYou1973 And that&#39;s the way the pepperoni falls!Opinions were divided, but most agreed that the delivery guy was indeed being creepy. Moral of the story? Communicate with your partner!

Ordering (and presumably eating) pizza is one of life&#39;s true joys. But it can go very weirdly wrong...  When a couple ordered pizza from the girlfriend&#39;s regular place, things got messy enough to consult the highest moral...

Man asks if he's wrong for reporting pizza guy who left note for his girlfriend.

Ordering (and presumably eating) pizza is one of life's true joys. But it can go very weirdly wrong...

AITA (Am I the As*hole) for reporting the pizza delivery guy for sliding a note under my girlfriend's door?