Some people definitely have strict rules on how clean they prefer to keep their own home. We all know one person who showers three times a day, wipes down the counters with bleach even if they haven't used the kitchen that day and carries hand sanitizer with them everywhere regardless of whether or not we're in the middle of a pandemic. Then, there are people who have much more lenient techniques on hygiene (looking at you, everyone who only brushes their teeth once a day and wears shoes on their bed), but being generally clean is usually a priority for most adults.
However, things can get messy (no pun intended) when you move in with a partner and share a bed every night, especially if you each have a different standard for cleanliness. If one person prefers to wash the sheets once a week while the other doesn't remember the last time they washed them, tension can arise and turn into something much bigger than a simple laundry schedule. So, when a Reddit user asked the internet's moral compass (Am I the As*hole?) what to do about an awkward situation with his girlfriend's showering routine, people were ready to determine whether or not he was in the wrong.