If you're considering having a child, but you're only interested in working part time, it's probably best that you just sit this one out. If you're in a relationship, working with your partner to be the best team of parents you can be is critical and while it is fun, it can also be a bit of a messy challenge.
If you're a mom and you're the main caretaker of your children, having your husband watch the kids isn't "babysitting," it's just being a dad. Watching over children is hard, sticky, exhausting, and sometimes painful.
You get spit on, sneezed on, vomited on and you're forced to constantly prevent them from hurting themselves. If you have a mentally and physically taxing job, you come home to a different kind of mentally and physically taxing job.
So, when a recent Reddit user asked the moral compass of the internet's "Am I the As*hole?" section, "AITA for not thanking my husband for taking care of the baby?" people were ready to help.