So, when a frustrated mom decided to consult the moral compass of the internet otherwise known as Reddit's "Am I the As*hole?" about her nephew's unruly behavior at her twins' birthday party, people were there to help deem a verdict.
I (27F) have a set of twins, Ben and Betty. They just turned 6. My sister (32F) has Conner who is 4. My sister and her husband lost their first baby due to SIDS. It was devastating for the whole family and I was behind my sister 100% of the way. I couldn't imagine what it was like.
Anyway when she found out she was pregnant with Conner, we were all excited. The pregnancy went well and Conner got a good bill of health. Everything was fine. I love my sister and I love my nephew but my sister is convinced that cause he's her rainbow baby, that means he can do whatever he wants.