Money is one of the top reasons people end up divorcing, and a huge source of stress and contention in a lot of relationships. Wealth gaps, childhood upbringing, and completely different philosophies on money can push couples apart - and that's not even touching the iceberg of what it's like to constantly struggle to stay afloat.
That being said, when a couple is able to come to an agreement about how to allot their finances, that's a beautiful thing - and not to be tampered with by outside forces, even concerned family members.
AITA for telling my family to stay out of me and my fiancé’s financial agreement and that if they keep bothering me they can’t come to the wedding
So my fiancé and I have a large wealth discrepancy. My grandparents gave me and my sister a large amount of money when they died, and I have a much higher paying job than him. He works just as hard as me, he just gets paid less.