Watching someone you love commit to a relationship with major red flags can be very painful. As a friend, it can be hard to know when to keep your mouth shut and be supportive, or when to speak your mind - consequences be damned.
All too often, people claim they want honesty from their friends about their partners, but feel personally attacked or defensive when a friend voices genuine concerns. At the same time, it's important to recognize when someone isn't looking for unsolicited relationship advice, regardless of how close you are.
AITA for telling my friend to get a prenup?
John has also claimed he wants to quit his job as an engineer to focus on hydroponics,