When a conflicted woman decided to consult the moral compass of the internet otherwise known as Reddit's "Am I the As*hole" about whether or not she was wrong to keep the strippers at her friend's bachelorette party a secret, people were quick to help deem a verdict.
My BF and I have been together for almost 4 years. We met in college, started dating our junior year and are part of the same friend group. A couple friends of ours were supposed to get married last summer, but had to delay it to this year. We are both in the wedding party and were invited to the bachelor/bachelorette parties.
During the planning for the bachelor party, my BF told me that the best man wanted to go to a strip club and the groom got the go-ahead from the bride. I am very uncomfortable with strip clubs, just always have been. I am not trying to shame sex-workers in any way, but strip clubs just always grossed me out.