If you're at a wedding or a birthday party and your first thought is, "how can I make this about me?" perhaps you should take a long look at your life and then stop being a selfish jerk. Proposals are beautiful, intimate moments when two people choose to spend the rest of their lives together. While public proposals can be fun celebrations with family, friends or flash mobs, stealing the spotlight from someone else is definitely never a good idea.
However, things might get complicated if you're actually trying to steal the spotlight from someone's party because you want to snag some sweet revenge for their past behavior. So, when a recent Reddit user consulted the underbelly of the internet's moral code to ask for advice about her recent proposal to her girlfriend, people were quick to determine the verdict of whether or not she is indeed, an as*hole.