It's hard to see the forest for the trees when you're in a toxic relationship. Which is to say, if you're dating someone emotionally manipulative, you may spot a few toxic invidual traits without realizing that's the root of the entire forest.
While other people's opinions on relationships aren't always a useful metric, there are times when it takes an outside perspective to pinpoint what's really happening between two people. For this reason, the Am I The A*shole subreddit is often overflowing with posts from people seeking out relationship advice.
AITA for going through my boyfriends phone after he had been posting explicit pictures of me online with out my knowledge?
So this happened literally a few days back but I’m still shaken.
My boyfriend of 3 years had a secret porn account I did not know about where he had been posting explicit pictures of me to subreddits with out my knowledge, even trading other women’s pictures for mine and etc.