Conflicts between close friends and family members can often arise during the wedding planning process as it's difficult to turn your loved ones into unpaid employees of an event company the second you get engaged. While your wedding day seems like the biggest party of the season, most people on your guest list will have to spend a lot of time and money to be there for you.
So, when a frustrated sister-of-the-bride decided to consult the online courtroom of moral philosophy otherwise known as Reddit's "Am I the As*hole?" about her sister's disappointing wedding guest list, people were quick to offer advice.
The important thing to know about our family is that it has a decent chunk of elderly people, and a lot of families. My sister and I are in a group of about five within our age range. Most of our relatives are about ten-fifteen years older or younger. In other words, everybody else is already an "established" (read non-partying) adult, or they are still kids who are too young to drink alcohol.