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Woman asks if she was wrong to threaten to kick out polyamorous house guest for judging her marriage.

Woman asks if she was wrong to threaten to kick out polyamorous house guest for judging her marriage.

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You can be friends with someone for years, but never really know them until you're forced to live with them for a few days...

Everyone's true colors come out when someone gets to look behind the curtain at how you behave in your home or someone else's home. Being a good house guest usually means being clean, respectful, and offering to be helpful with household chores such as cooking or doing the dishes. There are definitely some people who take the phrase "what's mine is yours" a little too seriously and abuse the generosity of their hosts.

Then, aside from the general expectations of cleanliness or respect for the actual house, things can always get awkward with friends when discussing politics, religion, or marriage and parenting preferences. So, when a recent Reddit user turned to "Am I the As*hole?" for some advice on how to handle a particularly judgmental polyamorous house guest, people were there to help.

AITA (Am I the As*hole) for telling my friend to "keep her polyamory sh*t to herself" or leave my home?

I know it sounds bad, but context is everything.

My friend Emily is staying with my husband and I for a week. She was evicted from her apartment after an incident with her ex boyfriend, and she had just two weeks until her new lease started and nowhere to go, so she's staying on our apartment.

One of the houserules I gave her was no visitors/partners. Emily is poly, and she has 5 current partners, and when I told her none would be able to visit (as I am an asthmatic and am trying to stay safe) there was a lot of complaining. Twice she compared her experience of me not allowing a visit from her partners to homophobia, which pissed me off because I'm queer and she's straight, and that's a hell of a thing to accuse a queer person of. Well ignored her, because I feel like it's my house, my rules. In two weeks (only 5 days left!) she can resume life as normal.

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