9 things you should know before moving in with your boyfriend

Sometimes in long-term relationships, there comes a point where a couple discusses taking that next step from "just dating" to "moving in together." While it seems like a natural progression in any relationship, it's actually a huge step to take as a couple. Sure, you may think it's not such a big deal when the two of you spend every other night at each other's own apartments anyway, but sleeping at someone's apartment and actually sharing an apartment together are completely different things – trust me. While moving in may seem like an adorable and magical idea – playing "house" always makes every girl excited and happy – it's a big f*cking deal, especially if there are things you're unsure about or questions you don't exactly have the answers to.

1. Make sure it's something you both want to do.

Everyone feels as though it's natural to move in together when your relationship reaches a certain point and you're a certain age (in your mid-20's/early-30's). And, while it is a normal step to take in many relationships, you want to make sure that you and your partner are both happy and comfortable with the idea of living together. If one person is more into it and the other isn't ready – don't f*cking do it. You both need to be ready to take this step together because if one person isn't ready, resentment will grow and your relationship will suffer because of it. I know a lot of couples who broke up after moving in together because they just weren't ready or at that stage in their relationship to do so.