Groom asks if he was wrong to kick bride's Maid of Honor out of their wedding.
Everyone's significant other has that one friend that you CAN'T STAND, but what if this pest is your bride to be's Maid of Honor?
Getting married can be extremely stressful, and it's common to be annoyed by one of your fiancee's friends, especially if they make the wedding preparations difficult. But is it ever appropriate to confront your bride or groom to be's 'rude' friend without telling your fiancee first?
When this groom felt disrespected by his fiance's Maid of Honor, he let her know directly, when maybe, he should've just stayed out of it. This salty groom took to the popular Reddit forum to ask:
'(Am I The A**hole) for threatening to kick my wife’s maid of honor out of our wedding?
My fiancée has this friend Alice and I don’t like to use this word, but Alice is a huge b****. She hates me for no reason. Like literally no reason. When I first met her and my fiancée’s other girlfriends, she was very cold to me and was very clearly disapproving of me. Multiple times she asked my now fiancée 'why the heck she’s with me.'
Okay...but why IS Alice so disapproving? Is she really a 'huge b****'?
I think it’s partially because my presence caused a big change in my fiancée’s life. She used to be a bit more lose with her morals, partied a lot, drank more, hooked up a lot, and these are all things that Alice still does. I also think part of her is jealous and angry that Alice found herself a good man.
Loose with her morals huh? Or is this groom a bit...loose with his judgement?
At our engagement party, Alice was not happy at all. She would glare at me across the room, would not have fun, and was trying just bring the mood down. I decided then was a good time to settle things. I told her that my fiancée 'chose me, not her.' I said that she needs to get over her silly little grudge towards me.
I reminded her that it was MY wedding and that I could have her out of it so fast, and I knew my fiancée would once again, chose me over her.
Shots FIRED!
Alice was visibly upset. I moved on but the damage was done. Alice told my fiancée what I said and she told me I was being a huge d*** and needed to apologize. I said that I would after Alice did, but Alice refuses. I was accused of being passive aggressive and rude. My fiancée is convinced I was the asshole and Alice is innocent. Am I the a**hole?
Well friends, I think you know what the Reddit fam had to say in response to this groom's Q...
He isn't really good at hiding his toxic attitude. And what is his reason to exclude the MoH? She wasn't fun at the party? And then he sets an ultimatum as reaction. YTA. -masterpieceok4688
AH vibes all over this post. Seems like fiance is blinded/being manipulated and you don't like that Ms. MOH sees right through your BS - iseedogseveryhwere
'Lose with her morals' 'Got herself a good man'
Your entire post comes down to 'I am a great man'.
You pulled the power card 'I can get you thrown out' YTA! - catculture8
I bet a LOT of women “hate him for no reason”. I kinda do too. - delsmagicfishies
And PROVE-ME-WRONG for the absolute win:
YTA... I've never met a good man that referred to himself as such. - PROVE-ME-WRONG
So there you have it folks! The lesson here? DON'T tell off your SO's MOH without permission. And also, don't play the 'good guy card,' when clearly, you're an A******!
And whatever you do... don't f*** with our girl Alice.