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Men generally have no idea what women go through on a daily basis, be it biologically, conforming to ridiculous beauty standards, or just trying to not get hassled by dudes. A few women took to the forums of Reddit to break it down for guys, telling them things they never knew they didn't know about women.

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1. User suoicadob informed guys about a heretofore entirely overlooked form of pain. Hooray!

You see, period cramps are debilitating, but they're at least consistent. Just take some Tylenol at that time of the month and most the pain is gone. Boob pains, however, strike at the least expected times. And when they get you, they get you good. I'm an eighteen-year-old girl in perfect health and I've been convinced on multiple occasions that I was going into cardiac arrest, just because my boobs couldn't catch a break.

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2. Yeah, Pink_Stethoscope, but men miss out on all the fun of a morally crusading doctor.

Gyno visits. If men need birth control refill they just go to the store and get a box of condoms.

3. InSuTruckyTrailer points out at least one area where men and women are equal.

Women's bathrooms are often absolutely disgusting.

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4. Frankly, PorcelainJester, they should cost a lot more, wonder of both engineering and fashion that they are.

A good bra can cost upwards of 80$, and for large-breasted women it could even be upwards of 100$. As a woman with a DDD cup size, I could probably get a PS4 for less money than it would cost me to get 3 decent bras.

5. The truth? Hair it is, from NewlyYorked.

Hair gets everywhere. Everywhere.

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6. User kar0196 lets the air out of a major myth.

We can be just as gassy as you, but we have to deal with annoying "gas traps." If a woman is wearing panties and (typically) sitting, the gas can go forward and essentially get stuck in the outer folds of the vagina, making an air pocket. We have to do a little wiggling to get it out. My husband found this fascinating when I told him.

7. Fortunately for datshivers there are so many helpful men out there who will remind her to smile!

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People think that just because I'm quiet or don't smile I'm a bitch or angry.

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8. User labialabialabia confirms your suspicion that science hates us all.

How confusing and frustrating our bodies can be. I had an ex that would just get so mad that I couldn't orgasm. I wanted to, but it's not like there is some magical button you can push. Also, monthly hormone fluctuations OMG. One day my face is flawless then a week before my period I breakout. My mood gets messed up right before my period and I cry for no reason and eat lots of cereal for two days, then the flood starts and mood is fine. It's as confusing and shitty for me as it is for you I promise!

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9. User reddituser84 likes to rock that natural, low-maintenance look, when she's got the huge amounts of time and money necessary to do it right.

That a natural look doesn't mean that it's low-maintenance. Men always say they like a woman who doesn't wear make-up, but chances are, she does. And she moisturizes, waxes, and maybe even dyes her hair.

Furthermore, all of that costs money, and not just once, but on a rolling basis. Men might not like paying for dinner, but women also don't like dropping $50 every month keeping those bangs and eyebrows in check.

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10. This comment from stashthesocks explains how the slang term "jugs" came about, because those are very unpleasant to carry around.

How heavy boobs are and how much back ache you get carting them about with you

11. RachelSid points out how systemic sexism is, even in freakin' body wash.

How much female products cost as compared to the male version of same product (razors, shampoo, body wash, etc)

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12. They definitely don't tell guys in seventh grade the health class the stuff purplehailstorm is talking about.

All the shit that comes out of our vagina. Like, what the fuck is this shit? Regular discharge. Then it changes during ovulation and it looks like fucking egg whites.

Then you get blood. Looks like a goddamn murder scene.

And sometimes for shits and giggles you get random ass orange stuff! Or, if life is great, you'll get an infection and it'll come out in clumps. Who knows what fucking color it will be like then.

Oh my god. Vagina's are awful. Sometimes I really struggle with understanding how they're attractive.

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13. You know what? User missydissy24 is absolutely right.

Our pants rarely have pockets! I seriously think it's a conspiracy to sell more purses.

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14. Annja points out that a job is a job (and that most of them are terrible, regardless of gender).

As a train engineer, all the comments about that if you do a "man's job", you're a tough girl with balls. No I'm not. I'm just a normal girl. Anyone can do this job. Stop with all the comments and questions about why I chose this job.

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15. Gummi-Tank reminds us of the great equalizers of pixelated bloodshed and alcohol.

That we are not that different. We like games, beer, and not shaving as much as you.

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16. Fun fact: This fun fact from NotMyNameActually will and should get us all angry for the rest of the day.

Being fat, as a dude, means you're desexualized. By societal standards, you won't be as attractive.

Being fat, as a woman, means you're dehumanized. By societal standards, you won't be as attractive, which means your only value is gone, and you're considered worthless.

A fat man can still be considered a great guy, funny, a hard worker, even strong and powerful if he's fat like a linebacker. Even sexy, to some people, in a "bear" type of way.

A fat woman? Pathetic, disgusting land-whale, how dare she go out in public, she should just go ahead and kill herself already.