Are you ever too old to need tender loving care from your family? This father believes that once you turn 18, you're on your own, however, his wife, Reddit user u/stepmom_throwaway23, completely disagrees. She takes care of her live-in stepdaughter against her husband's wishes.
It's causing problems in their marriage, so now she's turning to the internet to ask:
I truly have no idea if i'm in the wrong here or not.
My (39f) stepdaughter Mei (f20) recently came to live with me and my husband (38m) She moved to the States to live with her boyfriend but the relationship didn't work so she came to live with us.
She was raised in another country and her mom wouldn't let her stay here for long periods of time so I never got the chance to actually get close to her until now but we always got along well.